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Just a friendly reminder. Maybe to myself as much as anyone.
We can experience joy without that new piece of gear. We don't need to have the
latest and greatest. We don't need to go toe-to-toe with others and keep up with
the Joneses. This is not a race.
What if we can experience joy without meeting other people's expectations of what
we should do, or must play, or have to own. The people with the most shoulds are
often the unhappiest of all anyways. They spread the misery by making us think that
their own adopted catalog of "shoulds" is somehow universally mandated and ALL people
should be like them.
I just hope you find your joy---whatever it is, wherever it is..... and when you do, don't
let anyone talk you out of it.
We can experience joy without that new piece of gear. We don't need to have the
latest and greatest. We don't need to go toe-to-toe with others and keep up with
the Joneses. This is not a race.
What if we can experience joy without meeting other people's expectations of what
we should do, or must play, or have to own. The people with the most shoulds are
often the unhappiest of all anyways. They spread the misery by making us think that
their own adopted catalog of "shoulds" is somehow universally mandated and ALL people
should be like them.
I just hope you find your joy---whatever it is, wherever it is..... and when you do, don't
let anyone talk you out of it.