Nope. I never have argued for excessive volume.
From your post a few lines above:
What ISN'T part of the territory is high stage volume as I have defined it several times. That is just bad no matter how you slice it .... period.
Incorrect.
That was you .... right?
I have defined for you that "High stage volume" is when the guitars/drums/etc volume is near to or exceeds the volume level of the singer at the singers mic positions.
All bands that reach this stage volume level sound like crap out front period. There is no getting around it. It's physics at that point.
You also disagree that vocals are the most important part of the mix (except when there aren't any of course).... but lets stick with the 95% case here. Vocals are the most important part of a mix. If you drown them, it sounds like crap .... period.
My band uses IEMs and that doesn't change the fact that "micing cabs = hard/bad" is still an exceedingly dumb premise/hill to die on
Ironically, I'd actually vastly prefer NOT to use IEMs but unfortunately there's some specifics with my band that necessitate it
I agree mostly. Within my own band, they are mandatory ... because I sold my wedges in the mid 90's and they are the only method of hearing yourself. Many a guitar player has passed on playing with our band because they wouldn't use them. No issue with that. They will be happy in a different band that uses wedges. Using IEM's does necessitate micing things up though, or you simply can't hear them.
I don't use IEM's because I like the way my guitar sounds better through them..... I certainly do not. I use them because the out-front mix is so much tighter and more controlled vs wedges and higher stage volume. But this is a personal choice.
For bands that use wedges and a vocal only PA setup, it is still very important to keep the stage volume out of the vocal mics .... so it is trickier to do .... and harder to control out front, but it would be silly to suggest that a band can't sound good doing it.
Tightness is varying degrees. 4/4 at 70 BPM is easy, a constant barrage of signatures at 96 isn’t always easy. A hardcore band can be pretty loose and still put on a good show. A tech death band, not so much.
Overall, I would say that there are many more "tight" sounding bands today than 30 years ago. Much of this is due to the changes in monitoring techniques. It's just a butt ton easier to make a band on IEM's sound good out front than it is for a band with a bunch of wedges and loud amps. Being able to actually HEAR the rest of the band clearly and not having a ton of stage blead in the vocal mics, just greatly increases your bands chances of sounding good.
This is, of course, assuming that the band actually has talented musicians in it.