I agree with the OP but that said, practice the way you play. I gigged with very loud amps and cabs for 30 years. A decade ago, circumstances changed and I switched to modeling. I wasn't happy about it but I learned it and played with it and am now getting fantastic sounds out of my Kemper. Do I miss that amp/cab interaction? Sure I do. But that noise isn't paying the bills anymore. Just keep plugging away.
IT'S NEVER GOING TO BE THE SAME. I think once you grasp the finality of that (like I was forced to), I dug in and made sure I'm giving a guitar playing product that will work in any situation and tried to find the brighter side of noiseless stage life. Extremely quick setup, consistently great sound, plus no more fighting with FOH engineers about my stage volume. There are some things where I miss that feedback but I have two guitars with Sustainers in them so I use those for songs that need that kind of thing. There are pedals I think that could accomplish the same thing to add to your board.
It's sort of a blessing in disguise as I was losing my hearing anyway and now I just dial my IEM's in so they sound good and can keep the volume reasonable.
Damn right I miss the old days. Would I go back? Ya know, probably not. Especially here in my area in the states, a lot of venues won't book you if you use amps. But acoustic drums are ok. Go figure. Now profilers/modelers are my life and when dialed in correctly, they are really hard to beat. Anyway, hope you can see yourself through this dilemma that I think every professional goes through or will go through.