If you can't "feel" it with the volume at zero, you're not actually "feeling" anything, no semantics there. You're 100% hearing it and you should be able to describe what you're hearing. There is no magic in what's coming out of guitar speakers. They're just pushing air like any other speakers.
It's especially counterproductive to talk to someone about tone, trying to explain what you're getting from your amp/modeler/device and how to achieve the same, and boil it down to "feel".