It is nice to learn everyone's perspective.
People may have different opinions, and they are based on their experiences. Nobody is wrong.
I play some songs (covers) using capo because I had used a capo either when I learned it or interpreted the chords to suit my voice using a capo.
I have been effect-shamed by a guitar teacher after a gig ended (at a bar) because I have tried numerous times to incorporate pedals into my rig but have given up. I only have a tuner and 2 overdrive pedals.
He said he could understand the pressure of singing and playing guitar, so I should look for another guitarist who will play effect-laden parts. He had said that I sound bland.
I am aware of my limitations/ skill level. Inspite of being teary eyed, I just nodded when he said that. I know that he meant well, but I am not the superwoman superskilled guitarist he expects me to be. And it's ok.
Let's be like a family on here, and respect everyone's opinions. As I said, No one is wrong. Thank you for being helpful as always :)
You made some very valid points. Every player does things differently. The "tried and true" way of doing things for one player isn't necessarily the same for everyone. Everyone learns and develops this craft at their own pace. Getting up and performing in front of strangers can be intimidating. Eventually, you'll be able to still have the jitters, but use that nervous energy in your favor, where you don't feel like it's bogging you down. It's okay to have some stage fright before a performance. Many still do, even after decades of playing in front of people. Nothing wrong with that.
I don't understand how a teacher, who is supposed to be encouraging, can shoot you down so readily. That's uncalled for. Sorry you had to experience that.
You may want to consider a different teacher who will tell you like it is (not constantly tell you you're doing everything perfectly), but will do it
kindly and respectfully.
That kind of empathy and diplomacy, towards another person, goes a long way. A teacher is supposed to build up the student, not tear them down.
Skill and fluidity in playing come with time and practice. That usually takes some years. Be patient with yourself. All that will come to you, including getting comfortable with effects changes - whether you're using a single multi-effects processor, or a slew of pedals.
Guitar effects are just another set of basic tools to enhance your playing experience, while also giving you a large pallet of sounds to choose from, that may not be possible without them. Many bands use effects as an integral part of the song , and some songs just wouldn't be possible to re-create faithfully, without them.
There's no shame in that. Anyone that tries to convince you that you shouldn't be using effects is mistaken.
I've done some covers where I was needed for some harmonizing vocals, in live settings. I was okay, but nothing to write home about. I tried this original tune that had my lyrics, but failed miserably. Bailed on that. Lyrics just don't come naturally to me. I'm more of an instrumentalist and always have been.
I am not a singer, by any stretch of the imagination. Singing and playing simultaneously is
a gift. Pulling those two off, while also manually engaging the right effects, at the right time, are kind of an art, in itself :-). You'll get there! Don't be discouraged. Believe in yourself and keep on pushing. It's within your reach. I guarantee it!
I'll get off my soapbox, now.
Be encouraged :-). You've got this!