OMG @TubeStack beat me by seconds.
i have never been nice. f**k that. :)
I have no idea how I managed to miss your post before posting mine. When the screen refreshed and I saw two copies of Sgt. Peppers, I just assume we'd crossed in the mail.Well, seconds + 23 hours… :)
Hahaha I love this idea of responding to anger by threatening to do lots of nice things.I have the feeling I’m going to be doing lots of nice things when I get back.
I think I kind of split the difference. I'm fundamentally disagreeable in my own head: skeptical, impatient, uncompromising, etc. But externally, I tend to be agreeable to a fault. I don't like unnecessary confrontation, and if I don't watch myself, I can be a bit of a "people pleaser". It's a "functional" combination per the Peterson analysis. (I know what I want, but I'm not quick to burn bridges, either.) The downside is I internalize a lot of anger.Jordan Peterson talks about two kinds of people; agreeable and disagreeable.
Long story short… Turns out that disagreeable people are the ones that make the world actually function, because they know what they want and they are determined to get it.
Sometimes that means not being agreeable/nice.
Doesn’t mean you’re a prick.
That being said, I try to find a nice thing to do every day.
Hahaha I love this idea of responding to anger by threatening to do lots of nice things.
Hahaha I love this idea of responding to anger by threatening to do lots of nice things.
Yeah I think the "kill them with kindness" thing works really well all around. Because those that are just looking to make your life suck as bad as theirs ( most bad treatment boils down to this) or similar will secretly rage and those that are on the fence about you will think kindly of you and then those whom you like and love continue to see you are a kind person. Win/Win/Win. Now I just have to manifest it. Thats a whole other ball of wax.
”KEEP IT UP AND I’M GOING TO BUY YOU LUNCH!”
Sh*t Sandwich with some GFY Fries!!
I see you're married.Hahaha I love this idea of responding to anger by threatening to do lots of nice things.