The more i browse forums, the more i realize most guitar players don't know what the fuck they want

HXS ticks basically every box people have been complaining about Helix (and modelers in general) for years, only to be received with "eh, i guess we wanted...
more?"
Now, it might not be the device
for you and that's fine - there's plenty of amazing competition out there. But i can't help to scratch my head reading comments of "bad tones", "no reliability", "lacks effects", "meh amp models" or "no captures" (!!!) - particularly from some who apparently have never used one.
I'm stoked about getting a non-XL HXS myself. It's pretty much the golilocks small-Helix-without-exp-pedal i've been waiting for years, and the *only* thing which gave me some pause was the launch price. But that ship has sadly sailed for the entire industry; see f.ex. the Quad Cortex Mini, which some here rave about, and is only 20% cheaper than HX Stadium Floor.
In general, I find that what I say I’m willing to pay for something when we are in the conjecture stage vs what I’m actually willing to get my wallet out for when push comes to shove are always wildly different.
I drooled over the QC Mini on release but every time I pondered it - $1400 is just more than I’m willing to spend on stuff that, for me, are at best convenience features.
Part of why I’ve decided to keep my Axe Fx III/FC12 combo is that I know once it’s gone, it’s gonna be reeeeeeally hard for me to muster up the gumption to drop $2+k on a replacement for it.
For me part of it is that 2014-2022 were pretty heady times. There were so many rapid improvements, so frequently, in what digital devices could do sonically that it was really exciting all the time.
Combine that with a free-er flowing used market and an economic outlook that was pretty optimistic, and … it was pretty easy to feel like you were at the amusement park with an all access pass to ride every ride just for the fun of it. I churned through an Atomic Amplifier 3, a Helix LT, an Atomic Amplifire Box, a Kemper, flipped for a powered Kemper, Stomp, tried going back to amps, Ax8, FM3, and loads of plugins. The kind of gear churn that seems peeeeeerfectly normal -- almost modest even -- around these parts, but when you meet someone at a party and they say "Oh, you play guitar? Me to!" and then they ask about what stuff you play you realize...you're a serious outlier in the real world.
Today - sonic improvements are minor, at most. While I've griped about various UI issues along the way...I've also been using it all long enough that I can get over those pretty quickly and don't have to use them nearly as much since I know what I like in each. The reality is that when I'm having to reach for my wallet...UI/various performance-related features are always going to be things that I have a hard time justifying. For my needs even when I AM playing with others, Scenes/Snapshots are at the "convenience" end of things, not the "must", which makes stuff like Showcase just seem chuckle-worthy in terms of "added value" to me.
Combine that with the fact that I have more worries about economic future than I did ten years ago, even though my family's earning potential, even accounting for inflation, is a good bit higher now than it was then, and my job is fairly secure. In the early COVID times my house more than doubled in value, which was super exciting in the moment, but on the back end of it now is more depressing than exhilarating -- yes, my "net worth" has gone up, and I have better access to borrowing if I need it, but the reality is that if we do find ourselves needing to move -- every other house in any area we'd be looking at has had the same discontinuous step increase in price and interest rates are a lot higher. It would be PAINFUL. That kind of uncertainty isn't a "let's get out the spreadsheet and see if I can afford to splurge on that new QC Mini" thing, its just a general "eh, I just don't feel up to spending that kind of money on fun right now" feeling. Especially when combined with looking back over the last ten years and the amount of gear I've tried out for fun...
Taking all of that in the totality, I don't see me getting a new greater-than-$1k modeler for a good while given how great the stuff I have now sounds, that it does everything I need it to, etc.,
Oddly, I am much more willing to entertain thoughts of a much more expensive guitar than I was ten years ago. Partly because I've gotten more stable in the types of guitars that interest me and hold onto them longer; partly because instruments feel a lot more like "long term investments" than a new digital box.