The wife and I try to stay healthy.

I have come to accept that many people are much more fussy eaters than I am. I have not accepted how some (not the OP) portray their fussiness as a form of superiority.

I feel for people who struggle to lose weight. I'm fortunate that I can always turn the activity and eating knobs and get back to the weight that works for me in a reasonable amount of time.
It’s not fussy eating. It’s not eating shit and understand that you are what you eat. Taking control over the things you can because you want to be ready for the things that are beyond your control . It’s just about living your best life to the best of your ability that’s all . The people sharing their methods are just trying help .
 
Being skinny fat sucks :(
Same problem here. Can’t complain though. I have always been skinny, no matter what I eat or how I train. My body refuse to gain muscle mass. I get stronger with training and I have one hell of a condition not even being a “runner”. Strong heart, big lungs, low weight, resilient muscles that can work long without feeling the burn.

But yeah… passing 40, the old fart skinny dude fat is showing up. It’s only around the waist and a little on the stomach. Doesn’t show, but I see that shit!

Definitely shouldn’t complain though… I’m 183 cm and 62 kg. Skinny fat!
 
I was fat in high school and had to work my ass off to get my weight down in college. Many of my friends were super skinny no matter what they ate. For most of them as they got older they got skinny fat because they never had to develop any self control. However once they cleaned up their food and got a little active they got skinny again pretty easily. Sucks because I've been on a diet for the last 25 years and still 50 pounds overweight.
 
Definitely shouldn’t complain though… I’m 183 cm and 62 kg. Skinny fat!

Wow. 62kg and 183cm is seriously skinny.

I'm 180cm and was 66 when I was in my 20s and I thought I was too skinny.

I'm 52 and I've not been able to remove stomach and waist fat completely in the last 10 years.
 
Wow. 62kg and 183cm is seriously skinny.

I'm 180cm and was 66 when I was in my 20s and I thought I was too skinny.

I'm 52 and I've not been able to remove stomach and waist fat completely in the last 10 years.
Yeah… I basically lock exactly the same as I did when I was 15 :rofl But I’m an old fart with a little cute layer of waist and belly fat. It’s a small 1 cm layer I guess… if I laugh to hard a couple of times it probably goes poof.
 
This is a fascinating thread, thanks to our willingness to share and to listen to stories.

The Mrs. and I live in Japan and we just had our annual one day thorough medical exam, including full blood work and various scans. For our ages we are in good health, no serious issues. Having had these exams annually since we moved here has been instructive. For example, it’s interesting to track our results year to year, and compare that to our lifestyle choices. But we’re also learning to accept the inevitability of aging.

For example, neither of us needed glasses but our eyesight is slowly deteriorating. Not quite bad enough for getting prescription glasses, although we both now use readers and I have a special set for reading music.

We are both careful about eating habits and avoid certain foods, sometimes together, at other times divergent. For example, she’s not into uncooked fish, whereas I do enjoy sushi; she prefers meat, but less so for me. Neither of us smoke nor do we drink. We care enough about health to be attentive,

We have moderate activity, but neither of us go to the gym or do systematic training. We do try to get in 5000 steps a day minimum and 10,000 on some days. Two years ago we went on a pilgrimage that involved up to 20,000 steps a day. We are planning to go on another one next year, and get in a little more daily walking to prep. I find that things like walking are more appealing if there is a reason other than getting exercise. So, for example, I park as far away as possible on workdays to walk back and forth to the car, and prefer walking to driving for shopping.

In the end, I think sharing beyond this can be highly personal, and there are so many variables in health, including genetics. It’s probably best to leave some things unsaid.
 
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