Well, that’s why I asked for some evidence of it, it’s not that I don’t care about kindness, I just don’t see straight up personal attacks on other members at any frequency I’d call often. When I’ve seen it happen where I felt it was uncalled for, I’ve said something or a mod took action to stop it.
If I don’t think it’s uncalled for; IE- people continuously engaging in a forum slap fight and neither wants to walk away from it so inevitably someone starts packing the snowballs a little tighter, well, that’s why we made the Thunderdome that never really got used, but the intent was to allow them to sort out their differences on their own.