The fact that refining is so inconsistent is a big part of the issue to begin with. And sometimes refining either won’t help, or it’ll make things worse.
You end up in a guessing state between refining and hoping for the best, and then twiddling clarity and definition without really knowing if you’re making your tone better or worse or more like the source or less.
I’ve been mixing a band this week who recorded their guitars with a kemper and it reminded me of how much they fall apart when you EQ them. I’d really prefer things went away from brute forcing with match eq because it quickly makes things weird IMO.