Oh man there's some good discussions here!
I've also gone on the rabbit hunt for the Goldilox (SWITD) solution. Fractal sounded great but wasn't fun to use. Tried a bunch of menu free amp modeling pedals (Simplifier, Iridium, IR-X). Integrated with other effects or multi-effects. Got annoyed by lack of modularity and programmability. Reverted back to all in one modelers (Axe FX 3, Quad Cortex).
I think in my mind I want a single channel amp that can go from clean-ish to crunchy, then add in a few pedals for heavier stuff and effects. In reality, I seem to like a more complex setup that has usually two different amps, then some post-amp effects to really expand the sound. That lends itself to an all-in-one unit like the Fractal or QC.