I’ve been dealing with this lately in my band as well and the pushback I’m getting is rather confusing as the singer/guitarist went from “Dude, I’ve been following you in every band you’ve been in since we last met, whatever advice or help you have for us being a tighter band we’re going to take it”, to “You need to learn your parts, are you even playing in key? You’re screwing me all up” to “We have bandcamp, we don’t need any of that crap. You need to focus on learning the songs” when I offered to setup and run the band’s social media accounts.
I have 1 song I need to write my parts for. The reason it’s taking me so long is because before I even play a note on these recordings I’m mixing I’ve had to edit all his fucking tracks so I’m not embarrassed to have my name associated with them. This dude has sang in one band previously, for about 2 months. That’s his level of band experience. He’s played 3 shows and has never once booked a gig or has any idea about networking with other bands, he’s never even been on FB to understand why a band should have a FB page. The drummer is quite chill overall, there’s only one time he’s said something stupid and I may have took it wrong due to the singer pissing me off 5 minutes before.
My reaction to it all, though, has been good….for me at least. Every comment I hear just makes me want to lay down the sickest parts I can, I’m ensuring that when/if I eventually quit that they won’t find anyone else who is going to pull that stuff off.
After the last comment on Monday that perturbed me, I bought a subscription to Moises and took the demos they made before I joined and split everything into stems, deleted all the guitars and bass and started re-recording them so they can hear what they’d sound like when the effort is put in to get what you’re going for.
There’s several of their songs that I thought were going for a punk vibe due to the guitar parts, what I found later is that he believes he’s playing something entirely different than what’s actually on the demos. Take this intro riff, for example- he’s claiming he’s playing a palm muted triplet pattern like-
4-4-4—4-4-4—4—4-4-4
4-4-4—4-4-4—4—4-4-4
(We’re in drop C#) but I’m not hearing a single palm muted triplet anywhere in that intro. At best there’s a rest between strumming he may have used his palm to mute the strings in.
“It’s like a Lamb Of God riff”
I’m going to bang out the 7 songs from the demo from before I joined as I finish up the last song we recorded together and give them everything at the same time while saying “This is what your band can sound like, but if you keep taking pot shots at me this all goes bye bye”